jxm (he/they)

After writing my introduction post, I can’t stop thinking about how much I love my partner and how lucky I am to have her. She’s been so supportive and encouraging. We fit together perfectly. I would not have been able to realize who I was if she hadn’t given me me the space and support to spend nearly a year to figure out who/what I am. #introduce #queer #trans #queer #introduction #introspection #nonbinary #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbt #relationships #gratitude #queer #love

Since I’m going on about personal stuff, I’ll also mention that psychedelics have played a major role in me figuring out my gender identity. Using THC gummies definitely loosened the damn but late last year I tried mushrooms for the first time. During that first trip, it was just so obvious to me that I wanted to be someone I wasn’t. It sort of threw the shackles off my brain (that I had put there) and let me express what was hidden deep down inside. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that I wanted to be something other than male. I didn’t want to be a woman, but something in between. I want to take from both columns. Who says guys can’t wear yoga pants or leggings? Or a skirt? Or makeup? Mushrooms lowered my inhibitions enough for me to finally admit it out loud. And once I said, “I am trans” out loud for the first time, it felt so right. Like a huge weight off my shoulders. #trans #transgender #theythem #nonbinary #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbt #psychedelics #magicmushroom #shrooms

Not to be too horny on main, but getting to wear clothes that make me feel sexy is so refreshing. It’s ignited my interest in fashion. It was always there (my spouse and I constantly gab about onscreen fashions during movies) but I love exploring this new arena. My spouse has been encouraging me to find my style and helping guide me through the world of women’s #fashion- though if anyone else has tips or suggestions on fashion for trans femmes, I’m all ears. She’s also helped me with my makeup. If anyone has a good basic #makeup tips, I’ll gladly take some of those too. I’d love to start doing it on my own. #trans #transgender #nonbinary #lgbtqia #lgbt #fashionhasnogender #fashion

New profile picture. Drawn in Procreate on an iPad. #mastodonart #artwork #art #artistsonmastodon #portrait

Since posting my #introduction post last night, I have received so many kinda words and mentions from people. Coming out is scary but everyone in the fediverse has made me feel welcome. Thank you all.

Molly has taken the prime snuggle spot and Ripley is confused by this turn of events.

@pronounshe@lgbtqia.space gratefully accepted.