Binghe Apologist

Hey mainly US #trans folks, especially #transmasc folks, I’m looking for recommendations for bottom surgeons located anywhere in the US. Outside US recs also welcome as I might consider that depending on cost and quality and such. But really just looking for surgeons where folks have had a good experience, even if you haven’t had the surgery yet/didn’t get it for whatever reason. Pls help!

RE: https://hey.pomnavi.net/@navi/019fb138-4ddd-72fb-b22f-6f214a7acc77

Oh no, this looks right up my alley….i should check it out for sure.

Happy #Caturday from Yuan’s belly! (The belly is not a trap! This picture taken immediately after some firm belly rubs!)

If I had a nickel for every disabled sapphic transfemme I’ve met on OkCupid who I’ve ended up loving and who is into horror, has witchy vibes & DID, is into nerdy stuff like gaming and anime, & who I’ve met just before they started medical transition, I’d have 2 nickels, which isn’t a lot but it’s weird that it happened twice.

(There’s a lot more stuff they have in common too, and I’ve finally been able to introduce them so they’re finding EVEN MORE stuff they overlap on, but it is actually uncanny how much alike they are, and completely predictable I would love both of them very much. As my partner (the first one) said today I Very Clearly Have A Type now)

So, I had a bunch of medical-stuff-not-paid-for-by-insurance come out at once this month, with an additional 2-day hotel stay for another medical thing this weekend/week. This all means I am short for my housing payments this month, and also for food for the next week until I get paid again. I need about $140 by tonight to not be late & to also pay for some food while I’m staying in the hotel next week. Any help is appreciated, even just a boost!
Please and thank you!

Venmo: @TheBookewyrme@venmo.com
PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/LiaWolff05
Cashapp: $TheBookewyrme

It’s my birthday and for my birthday I got morning birthday sex, something I’ve never even wanted before T, got to show my cute girlfriend some more Yuki Yuna is a Hero, and am now about to get Indian Food and chocolate cake. 41 isn’t so bad really!! To the youngins’ hang in there, every decade is a little better than the last!

I’ve run across three fics in my bookmarks that have been deleted! 3!! And I’m only 5 pages into my bookmarks from most recent back! And I’m pretty sure these have been deleted recently because I’m pretty sure based on where they are in my bookmarks list that they’re all for ships I reread frequently right now so I would have noticed if they’d been deleted for more than maybe a month. Only one has a note from me and it’s unfortunately not specific enough for me to remember which fic.

I understand sometimes people want t separate themselves from their past fics for various reasons. But I wish more people would just orphan them instead of deleting them. I never know which ones they are and I’m always wondering if the deleted ones are favorites I’ve forgotten about or ones I rarely read. I have some favorites downloaded, but I honestly have too many damn bookmarks to download them all at this point. I’d need to start my own fucking archive just to keep track of them. And I don’t want to do that when AO3 is doing such a stellar job already of doing that for me. And I’m still reading those fics damnit! As a writer I would never delete a fic from the archive, even if I hated it and never wanted to see it again. I know my fics are important to other people and also I’m an archivist at heart so when something is in an archive I’m like “it should be in there forever. For posterity” and shit. Even if it needs to be hidden for a while, or have my name taken off of it. Even my worst fic mistake .

A local trans man of color I’m acquainted with is looking for about $40 to buy a bus ticket out of town to escape his transphobic abusive parents’ house. He’s currently camped in my living room just to avoid being in their house and having them call the cops on him when he asks them to stop being transphobic toward them. He has a place to land, just needs money to get there as it’s across the state. (Any extra he receives will probably be put to use feeding himself and getting stable enough to renew his CNA license and find a position). If you have a few dollars to spare, his Cashapp is $mrtomipklz
#MutualAid #crowdfund #TransCrowdfund #trans