StroongeCast

#StroongeCast E95: Stranger Danger https://youtu.be/0aSKM4H5ZWg

This week we discuss the idea of 'Stranger Danger', how to keep our young ones safe and out of harm, and how different it is teaching them in today's landscape of not just people on the street, but people online also. AI and deep-fakes can enhance a feeling of familiarity and safety that we've never seen before, so it's even harder to make sure they stay safe and out of harm's way.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/95_-_Stranger_Danger.mp3

#StroongeCast E91: Would You Ever Not Love Me? https://youtu.be/-ycaHKWV60I

This week we discuss a video that's making the rounds in which a person essentially says that If his woman got fat, he'd 'stop feeding her and tell her to get on the treadmill.'

Apart from being a disgustingly rude and hurtful thing to say, it's uncouth and shows that the person's attraction is clearly only skin-deep.
This was sparked after discussion about a footballer's wife being quote unquote, 'Not the norm for such a woman' and the stereotype that such women should 'look a certain way so as not to bring the footballer down.'

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/91_-_Would_You_Ever_Not_Love_Me.mp3

#StroongeCast E92: Don't Fear The Future https://youtu.be/-CrAXvN7KAY

This week we discuss our fears and concerns for the future, mainly around things like: 'What do we do when the kids leave home? How will we fill our time? What if they need us and end up living far away?'
Common things that parents most likely feel as their children turn into adults.
For each fear we try to find a positive thing to offset it however, so it's not all doom and gloom.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/92_-_Don%27t_Fear_The_Future.mp3

#StroongeCast E89: You Killed My Pig https://youtu.be/oA6GUQekWgg

This week we discuss some of the most ridiculous arguments in history.
From a stolen bucket to whether an imaginary friend is bigger than yours or not, there are a lot of silly discussions floating around.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/89_-_You_Killed_My_Pig.mp3

#StroongeCast E88: Living With Lodgers https://youtu.be/Chu--qvCQF0

This week we delve into Kirsten's younger life as she lived alongside foreign exchange students. How was it to be sharing a house with non-family members? Where did they come from and what were they like? Her parents were hosts for a few years, so we thought we'd take a look into what that entails.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/88_-_Living_With_Lodgers.mp3

#StroongeCast E75: Don't Just Throw It Away https://youtu.be/dT3WRE0JjOs

This week we discuss the idea behind overconsumption and what we can do as a society to combat it, even in small ways.
From donating food and clothing to friends and family or charity, to reselling old electronics or paying someone to fix them if needed, there's at least one thing to try and better this planet we call home.

Stay to the very end for a post-podcast chat about EWaste, electronics, fixing things and saving old products from just being dumped.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/75_-_Don%27t_Just_Throw_It_Away.mp3

#StroongeCast E85: Part 1 - The Younger Years https://youtu.be/6HQ9lWbu3TE

This week we delve into Andre's younger years at nursery and day school, how he was taught to navigate the world, touch-typing, learning to tell the time using analogue clocks, and for some reason, Shell suits?

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/85_-_Part_1_-_The_Younger_Years.mp3

#StroongeCast E84: Where's My Car? https://youtu.be/PaaquKMzzus

This week we discuss the potential pitfalls and scenarios around owning a self-driving car as a blind person.
Andre's all for it and wants the ability to get to gigs (near and far) without the expensive concern over cab fairs, but Kirsten is more reserved and considers the 'What If' issues more.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/84_-_Where%27s_My_Car.mp3

#StroongeCast E79: Don't Leave https://youtu.be/dbQPNHHI6kM

This week we discuss what it's like being apart for an extended period of time, ie when one of us is on holiday without the other, separation anxiety and all the strange, unusual noises that happen in the house when there are fewer people in it.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/79_-_Don%27t_Leave.mp3

#StroongeCast E78: Can I Touch Your Legs? https://youtu.be/ICDpmROkQ0g

This week we discuss the joys of visiting the UK job centre, which is the place responsible for getting people into work.
We talk about the inaccessible form that Kirsten had to fill out on Andre's behalf because it was on many sheets of paper, and the two not so great experiences they had when attending an in-person meeting to prove that yes, Andre is indeed still blind and that it will never change.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/78_-_Can_I_Touch_Your_Legs.mp3

#StroongeCast E86: Part 2 - The Middle Years https://youtu.be/MfzkTkI6PFM

This week is part two of a three-part series on Andre's schooling and college years. This time: boarding school, what learning was like in a specialist environment, navigating new areas, rowing from the middle of nowhere back to civilization and much more.

If you'd like to check out Andre's accessible program for reading temperatures and controling fan speeds for windows, you can find that here: https://github.com/OnjLouis/accessible-sensor-readout

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/86_-_Part_2_-_The_Middle_Years.mp3

#StroongeCast E72: You've Changed https://youtu.be/1LisvaFbVTA

This week we're discussing how we've changed both as a couple and individually. It's hard to see change when you've been together for a long time, but when we actually sat down and talked about it, we did notice some things that we were surprised to realise.
Change is so gradual when you live with someone else, that it may not always be glaringly obvious that it's even occurring at all.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/72_-_You%27ve_Changed.mp3

#StroongeCast E83: What Does It Mean To You? https://youtu.be/4FlqB-N90Eg

This week we discuss the ideas behind a good marriage, as this episode airs on the eve of Kirsten and Andre's 17th wedding anniversary.
The title 'What does it mean to you?' is about the overall thoughts, feelings and experiences of what a good relationship should stand for, how we achieve it, and the understanding that good communication can make or break it. Handle with care.

British Telecom's slogan used to be 'It's good to talk' and that is definitely true here.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/83_-_What_Does_It_Mean_To_You.mp3

#StroongeCast E71: Do You Fancy A Drink? https://youtu.be/Mxa0W_z6Ls8

This week we're discussing whether having a drink when out with friends is necessary and expected, or safe to skip. For those who don't drink, are you considered 'the boring one?'
Kirsten doesn't drink very much at all, and Andre may have a drink when out with friends or at a gig, but not always.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/71_-_Do_You_Fancy_A_Drink.mp3

#StroongeCast E90: Difficult Conversations https://youtu.be/bNkzCBn2BSk

This week we discuss the art of having a difficult conversation, be it with friends, family or when out on a trip.
Do you complain when there's hair in your food?
Do you talk to that family member that might be doing something you don't like in the moment?
Do you have chats (not arguments) with your significant other about difficult topics?

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/90_-_Difficult_Conversations.mp3

#StroongeCast E81: Don't Photograph My Coffin https://youtu.be/tAk_fEYzLC4

This week we're discussing the decision behind an influencer photographing her daughter's coffin and sharing that to social media, whether such things are potentially oversharing, or whether it's letting others know that grief is OK and doesn't need to be hidden.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/81_-_Don%27t_Photograph_My_Coffin.mp3

#StroongeCast E74: Why 13? https://youtu.be/7uW-AbRC8dg

This week we discuss 'Triskaidekaphobia' or the fear of the number 13. As this episode lands on Friday The Thirteenth it felt like a good time to break down some of the superstitions around the number, the day, how it's had a cultural impact on society, and the fact that other places around the world have superstitions about different numbers that are not thirteen at all.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/74_-_Why_13.mp3

#StroongeCast E73: I've Got Questions... https://youtu.be/2bItrjItlmk

This week Kirsten found a series of questions that you ask your partner. Andre had no idea about them in advance, so reacts to them directly. He chose not to find out before-hand so the answers felt more real.
Perhaps try posing them to your significant other (or maybe best friend) to see what they have to say about you.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/73_-_I%27ve_Got_Questions.mp3

#StroongeCast E80: What Did You Say To Me? https://youtu.be/bEvI37E08Tc

This week we delve into a bit of a minefield. Andre asked on Mastodon and Facebook about rude/ridiculous/silly things that people have said to those of us with disabilities and the responses were staggering.
From comments like 'You're blind so you must be Muslim' to 'They shouldn't be allowed out,' this episode may make you spit nails, you have been warned.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/80_-_What_Did_You_Say_To_Me.mp3

#StroongeCast E87: Part 3 - The Adult Years https://youtu.be/KRR5QcyxBr4

This week is part three of a three-part series on Andre's College and University years. This time: independent living, floodded dorm rooms and damp smells, Herbie Hancock, expensive cabs and much more.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/87_-_Part_3_-_The_Adult_Years.mp3

#StroongeCast E77: What Did You Eat? https://youtu.be/Wu3P4TXPN2U

This week we discuss foods of the passed. Things we ate as children (and honestly probably shouldn't have) but we enjoyed them at the time.
From plastic straws with almost raw sugar inside, to sweets in the shape of bugs containing liquid that burst when you bit into them, these are the memories of foods gone by.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/77_-_What_Did_You_Eat.mp3

#StroongeCast E76: Are You An Old Wife? https://youtu.be/5TgdjRv0IUw

This week we discuss 'Old wives' tales, sayings of popular wisdom (usually incorrect) passed down from generation to generation. From wearing high heels causing your baby to be cross-eyed, to wet hair being responsible for making you sick and more.

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/76_-_Are_You_An_Old_Wife.mp3

#StroongeCast E96: Did AI Steal My Husband? https://youtu.be/PbDJ1nWSy9Y

This week Ed and Andre discuss the trials and tribulations of AI coding, what it means to us, how it's been changing how we work and play, and how accessibility plays a huge part in our decision to use it.
Is it cost-effective? Is it dangerous? Is it taking us away from our wives? What does Kirsten have to say on the subject?

Download: https://onj.me/media/stroongecast/96_-_Did_AI_Steal_My_Husband.mp3
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